3 Goals for 30... the solution to the many doors situation?
The walking through 'many doors' situation...
So the problem is, if there are too many choices, I end up not being able to pick a door to walk through. It is great to be the one choosing, but too many choices paralyzes a person, and keeps me just standing there, opening more doors. I get myself the key, but never walk through to see what the other side of the door really has to offer...
Perhaps the reason for my hesitation is that I really do not have a set goal in life. I obtain the keys to open a door, but I never feel the urge to open it. When there is something that I should dive and completely absorb myself in, my nature pulls me away from it, partly because I no longer know when or even how I should walk through a door.
So the solution? Maybe all I really need are goals. My own goals, not ones other set for me. With these, I will walk through the doors of life, and not look back. If I go through the wrong door, then so be it. If I am always afraid of making the right choice, then I will never make a choice - which is no better than making a bad choice.
Success is defined to most people by achievements, but true success comes from one's ability to perservere and rise from adversities.
So with that, my 3 goals for 30:
Find 1 for eternity
Find 1 000 to create the foundations to break out of the crystal shop
Find 1 000 000 and be strong and competent
I don't see clearly how I can achieve it yet, nor do I have the means to. But to break out of the many door situation, these goals will be what I work towards. The realization of thse goals will come at the defiance of impossibility :).
Generally Methodology...
For these 3 goals, if the whole world goes against me, then I will gladly go head on against the world! :)
During the striving for these 3 goals, I would imagine that though they would not contradict, they would get in each other's way. If all 3 cannot somehow be divided up and worked on concurrently, the following rule will apply:
Where they interfere with one another, priority of goal 1 > 1000 > 1000000. Simple as that!
Let's see how far I get in 3 years...
So the problem is, if there are too many choices, I end up not being able to pick a door to walk through. It is great to be the one choosing, but too many choices paralyzes a person, and keeps me just standing there, opening more doors. I get myself the key, but never walk through to see what the other side of the door really has to offer...
Perhaps the reason for my hesitation is that I really do not have a set goal in life. I obtain the keys to open a door, but I never feel the urge to open it. When there is something that I should dive and completely absorb myself in, my nature pulls me away from it, partly because I no longer know when or even how I should walk through a door.
So the solution? Maybe all I really need are goals. My own goals, not ones other set for me. With these, I will walk through the doors of life, and not look back. If I go through the wrong door, then so be it. If I am always afraid of making the right choice, then I will never make a choice - which is no better than making a bad choice.
Success is defined to most people by achievements, but true success comes from one's ability to perservere and rise from adversities.
So with that, my 3 goals for 30:
Find 1 for eternity
Find 1 000 to create the foundations to break out of the crystal shop
Find 1 000 000 and be strong and competent
I don't see clearly how I can achieve it yet, nor do I have the means to. But to break out of the many door situation, these goals will be what I work towards. The realization of thse goals will come at the defiance of impossibility :).
Generally Methodology...
For these 3 goals, if the whole world goes against me, then I will gladly go head on against the world! :)
During the striving for these 3 goals, I would imagine that though they would not contradict, they would get in each other's way. If all 3 cannot somehow be divided up and worked on concurrently, the following rule will apply:
Where they interfere with one another, priority of goal 1 > 1000 > 1000000. Simple as that!
Let's see how far I get in 3 years...
posted by Mson | 9:37 PM
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